The Truth About Some Moms Not Connecting With Their Newborn

Have you ever thought that you may not connect with your baby after giving birth to them?

Believe it or not, it is a common thought  plagued by many first time mom's as well as mom's who have had multiple pregnancies.

Giving birth can be equivalent to an out of body experience that is a commonality for many women.

Whether you deliver your baby natural, through c-section or epidural it generally brings two natural and common popular reactions which are almost always, awe and secondly, disbelief.

Disbelief: shocked into another planet that this little being was created by you and that he/she is yours.

Awe: crying profusely for the beautiful moment being felt at that point in time
It is a feeling that cannot be described by words.

Try this relaxing short video to help ease your mind!

The love shared between a mom and her baby is simply joyful love that can be felt deep within the soul.

Some mom's will encounter their experience of love in many various and distinct ways that may not imitate another mom's exact occcurence.

Which is totally fine, as there's no true exact way of receiving love as it already existed before they even arrived.

There's no need to feel bad in any way for any initial non-connection. Keep in mind that the bond between a mom and their newborn is not always easy or immediate.

They know exactly who you are first! They've listened to you endlessly for hours and that first holding of them after they're born seals the deal for them.

They will make the baby-parent-mom connection upon delivery while mom is stressing out and getting all worked up, baby is just fine finally being in mommy's arms.

I can atest to the same scary feeling upon delivery my angel but when she arrived I saw how she was cool as a cucumber. It allowed me to get the courage and strength to stay strong and relax a little and from that point on I was okay.

The Shocking Truth About Failed Relationships Revealed

Have you ever wondered why do people get into relationships that fail repeatedly?
The answer is simple. It's because they don't know each other.

I mean really deep down, within, which does take a week or six months. It's a notable fact that anything rushed never works out.

It becomes a question of do you really know who they truly are.

In today's society, people want everything to be rushed and available immediately.

This can be good in certain instances, but not quite for relationships. If you don't know anything about this person beyond their physical features then that is a problem.

If you wont take the time to fully learn what makes one another tick then what exactly is the real reason that you're with this person in the first place.

Some people will be in a relationship with someone and not know their last name, meet any family members or children even after dating for more then two years.

Now that just seems really odd to say tge least. Either someone is hiding something or they aren't interested in pursuing anything seriously.

Here's 4 Questions To Ask Yourself
When You're Interested In Someone

1 -Did you take the necessary time (6 months to 1 year) in getting to know each other?

2- Are there any red flags that would cause you to end things?

2 - Can you see yourself with them forever?

3 - Do you share a common end goal?

SLOW AND STEADY

It's always a wise choice to take things slow. If it's something you want for the long run, it shouldn't be any issue.

Be friends before you initially start anything. See where there head is at so you can get an idea of where they stand.

This will weed out anyone who wants to be with you for any reason other than a genuine relationship. 

You should want to know what you're getting yourself into, if you're in it for the long haul and not just looking for some easy hookup or cheap fling.

On the other hand, if they don't want to wait,  then they do not respect you. Which is not a quality you want in a significant other.

Remember to always keep in mind that. physical attractions are completely common, but a real connection is rare, so when you find it, hold on to it!